Who do you want calling the
shots in your life?

Your insecurities? 

Your social media algorithm? 

Your mother? 

Don't you want to feel like you can turn to yourself and trust what you find? 

How often do you trust yourself to parent, to make bold career moves or to say how you feel? And how often are you instead paralyzed by fear, guilt or self-doubt?

So much of the time we don't trust ourselves and - sometimes - it's for good reason. When we are stuck in unhealthy patterns of thinking and behaving that have been passed down from generation to generation, we actually can't trust ourselves.

We need a way to cut through the mental noise and the emotional overwhelm to access the true wisdom at our core. 

Even when we do finally hit upon clarity, the challenges aren't over. 

We know what we need to do but find ourselves stuck in perfectionism, shame, compare-and-despair or overwhelm. 

We get lost in constant busyness without direction. 

We sell ourselves out or put ourselves last. 

We begin projects that we don't complete or we jump from one crisis to the next, taking care of everyone's needs except our own. 

We don't know how to settle, how to stop or how to just be.

We feel lost.

When so much of our inability to follow-through is an inside job, we need a radical route back to ourselves. But it's hard - almost impossible - to do it alone.. We desperately need a tribe of people around us who will:

• Model what it looks like to trust oneself, as they do it for themselves. 

• Support us when we are in doubt, without trying to fix it for us.

• Never ask us to quote our sources or the so-called "experts." 

• Remind us that finding answers in our own hunches, our body or the Unseen doesn't make us crazy or irrational, it makes us wise beyond measure.

We all need others to listen, to hold space and trust our process enough to resist the temptation to jump in with fixing or opinions. We need people who can ask us the right questions, share from their own experience and stand for our greatness when we can't feel it. We need spaces that give us the courage to act on what we already know, so that we can steer ourselves lovingly and gently through uncertain times. 

This kind of community is life-giving and life-changing. When we have enough support to look at our blind spots and embrace the chaos, we experience a coming back to our bodies, our values, our wisdom and ourselves. We are at once greater and more humble, clearer and more able to tolerate uncertainty, more focused on action and less attached to a specific result. In short, we have re-birthed ourselves. 

From this reborn place things are simple and more able to be dealt with. Problems seem more manageable and actions more likely to be taken. We are less fearful, less blocked and less alone. We have more access to the confidence we lacked, not because we now "know it all" but because we are more grounded in the moment-to-moment unfolding of the process. 

That's why I call myself a Tarot Doula. Whatever transition you are currently facing, I'm not here to be your guru or to birth this baby for you. I'm here to witness, support and cheer you on as you Rebirth Your SELF. 

You come trusting the cards. You leave trusting yourself. 

That's Tarot Doula magic.